What’s your feeling when you open a window
in computer there are some nudity picture? (For example a threesome date, two
gays are kissing, a man have sex with two bisexual women) Watching the picture
and fanatic the image, or close the window fast? Why I ask the question? Different
activity shows different attitude when facing the erotica.
More or less we will touch some erotica in the
daily life. Some people will be happy to accept it. But most people was shame
to face it. Turn away right now or close the movie, picture, TV this is the
most common performance. This is a situation we cannot avoid if we live in the
world.
So, there is a question. Why the people
have different attitude to erotica? I think the social-cultural background account
for the largest percentage. We cannot say that witch cultural is more
excellent. But we can choose to enjoy our life.
No matter you like the erotica or not. You will
sleep and have sex with your partner. No matter you are gay, bisexual, lesbian,
straight expect the frigidity people. Just have sex with different way. Are you
shame to show your body to your partner. If the answer is yes. I think you
should try to change your mind. We know proper shame is good for your chat up. But
excessive shyness may take away a lot of fun when you have sex. Have sex is the
instinct of a human. We shouldn’t suppress it in a reasonable situation.
Open your mind, open your arms to enjoy the
love. Not only you can becomes more confidence, but also can improve your quality
of sexual life. Open doesn’t means libertinism. It dependent on who is your
partner to have sex.
Many good movies was banned for many years,
because of some movie plot have erotica. When it remove the ban years later. We
watch it again with newest perspective. And we will find that we can accept the
movie very easy. It’s not the director cannot control the erotica plot in the movie.
They would rather the movie been banned than delete the erotica pieces. There
is only one thing they want to talk to us, it’s they want to break the old
notion and encourage people to enjoy the life, and the feeling when have sex
with partner.
It’s very hard to change mind right now. It’s
a slow process. But you get the new life when the moment you decide to have
change.
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