How do you deal with the sexual fantasy to same sex people?

Don’t think that only you thought about have sex with same sex people in the world. There is a research study about “Which kind of sexual fantasy is rare?” shows that 81.7% female and 82.3 male fantasize they have sex in public places. 66.3% female and 83.4 male fantasize have sex with stranger. And more than half people fantasize have sex with same sex people.

It seems there is myriad kind of answer. Why?

The kind of sexual fantasy is vary with each individual. To a great extent it depend on the life experience. So whether what kinds of sexual fantasy you have, don’t worry, they are normal. Sexual fantasy is not a trouble. The real trouble is the pressure while you try to against your sexual fantasy.

People is shame to talk about their sexual fantasy. Some people would have the emotions of hate and criticize to their sexual fantasy. E.g. someone always fantasize have sex with same sex people. Or someone fantasize have a threesome dating. Some female fantasize have sex with many male at same time. But we should know sexual fantasy is spontaneous and inevasible. The negative induced emotion come out while you try to reverse it.

Some people think that excessive sexual fantasy will cause sexual anxiety. Even it may lead sexual crime. In fact, excessive sexual fantasy could only show the psychological problem. It’s not the reason that cause all problems. Sexual fantasy is not reality. It’s a problem to mix fantasy with reality.

What benefits that sexual fantasy could bring us?

1. Sexual fantasy is a substitute while sexual behavior is not enough. Though sexual fantasies are not realistic. But the pleasure that we generate from sexual fantasies are real.

2. Sexual fantasy can satisfy your desire for control. There is always imperfection in reality. But in the world of your brain, you can have perfect imagination.

3. The best aphrodisiac is your sexual fantasy.

4. Research study shows that sexual fantasy can relieve pain and burn calories.

Try to accept your sexual fantasy but not resist it. Treat it as a dream no matter you are gay/lesbian, bisexual or heterosexual. Don’t have any mental stress. Even you could talk about your sexual fantasy to your best friends or your partner. But don’t mention whom you date with.

The world owes gay and bisexual a marriage?

In normal people’s mind. Straight person should have straight partner. Gay person should have gay partner. Does bisexual must have gay & bi partner?

Do not know when to start? More and more gays & bisexuals come out around us. At beginning many people become uncomfortable. The first thing flash in the brain is rejecting them when some gays & bisexuals come out. Because we would differentiate the groups different with ours. This is the instinct of us.

The reason why human could stand at the top of the biologic chain is that we have strong resilience. Every kind of people have special value if they survival from ancient time to the present. Many human civilizations die out in the history. (e.g. Maya and Atlantis)

Let’s count that what we still have. We have white, black and yellow race. Do those enough? No, not enough, we also have LGBTS people. If human could be differentiate as complexion, why do not we differentiate human as sexual orientation. Because I think every race have LGBTS people. What make us could survival for now? Not the environmental pollution, not the war, not the racial discrimination, it is love. The love of straight, the love of gay, the love of bisexual, the love of transgender. What makes the love always around us? It is marriage.

White people could married to black and yellow people, vice-versa. There is no strange to their marriage. So, why so many people mind gay’s marriage, bisexual’s marriage? It looks like only straight’s marriage is admitted. Even many gays & bisexuals are scared of come out. Do you understand how merciless it is? Try to image that 95% people are bisexual and gay, if you come out as straight you will lose job. But if you don’t come out, you have a great probability married with a same sex people. Is this the life you want? I don’t think so.

No only straight need have a legal marriage, but also gay and bisexual need legal marriage. Many countries have passed the law of gay marriage. But not all countries. The limit to people’s mind is more harmful than enslave their body. Obviously, there has no slave in the world now. But does everyone get the freedom?

A bisexual woman’s real life.

The couple Cristina and Benno come from Texas have married for 12 years. And they have three child. Cristina is a bisexual, after discussing with Benno, they have a common girlfriend Sierra Kuntz. More and more bisexual family choose this life style, but the first thing is make sure your partner is agree with you. (Cristina, Sierra, Benno)

 31 years old Cristina and 37 years old Benno, they meet each other when they were serving in the police force of Florida at 12 years ago. They get married 4 months later. And they have a daughter one year later. After that they have two more children. 

 But because of Cristina is a bisexual, she feel that her world is not completion. She decide to make her life to be a whole bisexual life. So she come up with her husband a request that she want an “Open marriage”. 

 Cristina said to Benno that she want a woman join their marriage. Then she meet Sierra in a bisexual dating site. Sierra works in a pet shop in Las Vegas shopping center. Cristina date with Sierra several times and both of them feel very good. Sierra is willing to join them. 

Benno is very hesitating when heard Cristina’s request. He is worrying about that Cristina will leave him when she date with Sierra. After a period of time he knows that Cristina really want to build a three people marriage. Finally, he agree with Cristina.

After a threesome dating, they all make sure it’s the best status of their marriage. It’s very logical for Sierra to join the family. 

Sierra’s main work is take care of the three children after joining the family. Benno and Cristina’s work is make money.  

Benno said that their three children are understanding and supporting parents’ marriage. Even they will call Sierra mum.  

Sierra treat the three children as her own. She feel very happiness when children call her mum. They will not jealous of each other in daily life. The trouble is that it’s a little hard to communicate with each other in the three marriage sometimes.

Benno said they always share all the feeling and hide nothing. Everything is equal.

Now, they are try to help Sierra build a legal relationship with their children. Cristina and Benno will apply for divorce. Then one of them will married will Sierra. Benno said what they have done are helping Sierra become a real member of the family.

Christina said they have owned all they want. Three lovely children and a perfect bisexual marriage. Harmonious family make them feel very happiness. “Everyone is different, some people meet to monogamy. But some people is more suitable for other life styles.

Bisexual is not a market for threesomes.

Do you ever discussed a topic about bisexual and threesome? A lot of articles also have talked about the relationship between bisexual and threesome. In fact, their relationship is not special. Because I have ever said that bisexual is suitable to have threesome date. But it just means bisexual have some advantage in a threesome relationship. I think male is the biology that most like have threesome date. In have sex respect male is always positive.

Threesome have the same meaning to straight & gay & lesbian like it meaning to bisexual. There are so many threesome dates in the world every day, few bisexuals join it. Most of the member is straight. People’s image of threesome come from the movies. The movies were made to all people 18+. There are no words like “For bisexual or for gay” in the movies.

If you are a bisexual, and just right you want to have threesome date. You can join some threesome dating site. You have many choices straight, gay, bisexual. Choose anyone you want be today. Who is you tomorrow morning? It’s ok to don’t forget the way come home. Many straights want to have threesome date want to experience the feeling of having sex with two women. Try the site bisexualfun.net it will help you.

It seems that there have no threesome date for gay people. Of cause not, gay & lesbian also could join the threesome, it’s just a sex play. It could be a good game when everyone enjoy it. MMM & FFF are the special threesome dating for gay & bisexual. Well, bisexual is everywhere. One key to open one lock, bisexual is the master key to all locks. Now, do you understand the relationship between threesome and bisexual? Threesome is like a super market for all people, bisexual is the richest people. What to buy all depends on the mood.

Does it means straight & gay just have only one choice? No, in the sex play everyone have a role. If you curious other roles, you can try. Nothing can bound your mind.

Fall in love with bisexual woman

This is an absurd and complicated story. But it’s a real story. What I can say it’s about bisexuals. So let’s begin.

The hero of the story named Jim, was born in Seattle. He is ugly as a child and blush when speak with girls. In high school, his classmates voted to who is the last one to find a girlfriend in the future, Jim at the top!

But now he is like this:

At the age of 25, he suddenly started to “work hard”, study how to date with girls. Everything comes to him who waits, and soon Jim become a dating expert. 

According to his own words: “I can date with any kind of woman if I want”. He began to date with all kind of woman. The most exaggerated is that keep relationship with 14 woman at the same time.

Few years later, Jim feel tired and want to find a good woman to marry and settle down.

At this time, he met his first true love in a nightclub. Her name is Alex. He and Alex moved to Texas and began a new life.

Three years past, the married life is everydayness. Jim want a baby but Alex refused. The marriage began to broken.

In order to save the broken marriage, Jim and Alex came up with an idea: let’s go out looking for our own date. (What the hell!)

Both of them are good at looking for date. Every night they will share the experience of have sex with new partner. Also they can become good friends with each other’s new partner!

Later, Jim met a bisexual girl Bull. Alex always said to Jim that Bull likes women more than man. Do you want to have a challenge? Jim did it. Because both Jim and Bull have a strong common interest, beauty.

Jim find out he cannot inseparable from Bull. He break up with other date partners and divorce to Alex. Finally, he married with Bull.

Jim found that he could not bear the life of monogamy. Fortunately, Bull is also the case. Bull is a bisexual! They talked about it… Come up with a good idea: Let’s looking for new woman partner!!!

They began to date with new woman partner one by one. And looking for partner in the bar & bisexual dating site.  Yes, they have threesome dating! One year later, they met a painter Jan in a bar. Both Jim and Bull fall in love with Jan. What a coincidence, Jan is also bisexual, but she had never experienced the threesome dating.

Obviously, a handsome guy and a beautiful bisexual woman, their charm get doubled in the eyes of a bisexual girl. Soon, Jan fell in love with them.

According to Jan, imagine that you have met your soul mate, now multiply this happiness by 2.

They bought new big house and live together. A straight man with two bisexual women.